Alright, well I am 16 and so is my girlfriend and she is my first relationship and I am her first relationship. We have been dating four months, almost five.
However, I have had many sexual partners before her, and I am her first sexual partner as well, anyways;
I am really becoming sexually frustrated, because 90% of the time I come onto her, she pushes me off, and the other 10% she doesn’t push me off, she only really gets into it about .05% of the time.
I mean just making out and stuff, and we haven’t done anything past that.
Also, she really only feels comfortable doing things with me around her best friend (Actually, she really doesn’t like to be with me if other people aren’t there)
She will get sexual with me if her best friend isn’t looking (Hands in pants and stuff) then if her best friend looks she will taking her hand(s) out immediately, and she is a really big tease and I spend a lot of energy trying to do stuff with her and it is almost always in vain.
It is really starting to piss me off, she is a huge tease too so that is even worse, actually she has teased me so bad I’ve gotten blue balls a few times.
Also she will say really contradictory, borderline retarded, condescending oxy moronic things such as:
"I want to have sex, but I won’t because I am not married."
"I would have sex with you, but I am not into that, but totally know I would if I was!"
Stupid things like that, and I never ever have brought up the conversation of sex with her, ever!
No pressure at all.
She will ask things such as "What if I wanted to have sex with you, what would you do?" Etc.
Tonight, I was knecking with her and I tried to move a little further down into her shirt with her mouth and she jumped a full foot, stared at me like "WTF?" then smacked me almost hard enough to leave a mark, but not quite.
It is really getting to me, because sometimes she wants me all over her, and other days my nuts are grinder meat if I even try to go past giving her a little kiss.
Pulling me back and forth and what not.
What should I do?
I am so sexually frustrated, I am about to go pick up a freakin’ playboy and whack it till I am shooting blanks!
HELP!